Tasting the film with body and heart--set your mind free

Saturday

梦话《大鱼海棠》

Big Fish & Chinese Flowering Crabapple

放下头脑,用身体用心去感受这部电影。

Tasting the film with body and heart and set your mind free.

我不确定你在阅读这篇文字的过程中会有怎样的体验，或许对你有些触动，或许引发你的抗拒，或者其他，都是可以的，请照顾好自己。我只是分享我的声音，也欢迎你发出自己的声音，我们欣赏和尊重每一个声音。好了，现在，由你来决定是否继续看下去……

I don’t know how you feel when you read this article that maybe touch you, resist you, or make you feel something else. All these feelings are normal, but only remember to take care of yourself. Here I share my inner voice with you, and your opinions are also welcomed. Every voice is deserved to be appreciated and respected. Now, it’s up to you to decide whether you will go on reading it or not.

片首，一行字，“欢迎进入我们的梦境”，全场寂静，浩瀚幽深的海洋画卷中，响起老年海棠的旁白，“我们是谁？我们从哪里来？我们到哪里去？”一群巨大的鲸，游弋在天海相接之处，缓缓飞行。

At the beginning, there is an opening title saying that Welcome to our dreamland. Silence reigns all over and comes with the old crabapple’s narratage---Who are we? Where are we from? Where will we go? A throng of huge whales cruise through the horizontal merging of the sky and sea.

梦话一

死亡与永生。有一种说法:死亡,是我们选择更换躯体的形式再一次体验生命的机会,比如你决定变成一只鸟,或一棵树，用不同的形式体验生命。电影里,奶奶变成凤凰,爷爷变成一棵巨大的海棠树，爷爷奶奶之间的爱，祖父母对孙女的爱，不受形式的影响，持续流动。在一些原始部落，会用爱围绕着死去的同伴，羡慕地看着他踏上永生之门。

Death and Immortal. As the saying goes, death gives us an opportunity to re-experience the life by exchanging our body, for instance, you can choose to be a bird or a tree or some other different creatures. In the firm, grandma turns into a phoenix while grandpa turns into a huge crabapple tree. The love among the grandpa, the grandma and the grandchild will last forever, without being influenced by its form. In the primitive tribe, people embrace the dead with love and send him to the eternity gate with envy.

梦话二

海豚与另一个文明。电影里，海棠世界的天空连接着人类世界的海底，另一个世界的人们化身海豚穿越大海来到人间。有一种说法：海豚,是智慧的记录者,是我们与另一个文明交流的信使，它们带着上古文明的记忆游进深海，等待有一天，把另一个文明的智慧再度呈现在人类面前。

Dolphin and the other civilizations. In the film, the sky of the crabapple’s world mingles with the seafloor of the earth. People from the other world incarnate into dolphins and come to the earth traversing the sea. There is a saying: Dolphin, the recorder of wisdom, is the courier for our communication with the other civilizations. They come to the deep sea with the memory of the ancient civilizations waiting to be presented to the humans till the right time.

梦话三

爱与自由。电影结束的画面，海棠向失忆的鲲伸出手，她的脖颈带着一个项链，那是湫送给她的灵石，这寓意着，海棠带着湫送给她的爱与祝福，和鲲开始未知的生活。很多人吐槽片中对爱的牺牲和庸俗的三角恋，我不想多谈这些，只想分享一个观点：是的，我们是可以带着另一个人的爱好好生活的，这是对自己，对湫，对爱，最大的尊重。电影中，湫用牺牲自己的方式爱着海棠，海棠用报恩的方式爱着鲲，生活中，有人说爱是一生陪伴，有人说爱是勇敢放手。没有谁比谁更好，自由的去爱，自由的定义爱。

Love and Freedom. The scene in the ending shows that crabapple stretches his hands to the amnesiac big fish, which imply that they will start their new unknown life with love and blessing from Qiu. Someone may complain about the sacrifice of love and the vulgar triangle love. I just want to share my idea: Yes, we can live well when we are loved by others, which is the utmost respect for ourselves, for Qiu and love. In the film, Qiu loves crabapple in sacrificial way, and crabapple loves the big fish with a heart of gratitude. In our life, love could be the companion for whole life, and could also be letting it go. But no one is better than the other, just feel free to love and define love.

梦话四

人类集体潜意识。从我开始观看这部电影已过去四个小时，然而我身体的每个细胞仍旧在细微的震动，我的心为之兴奋和喜悦到颤抖……我想，或许这就是细胞中人类生生世世记录的集体潜意识被触发之后的感动。就像《大鱼海棠》的导演所言，“人的灵魂来自一个完美的家园，那里没有任何污秽和丑陋，只有纯净和美丽。灵魂来到这个世界，漂泊了很久，寄居在一个躯壳里，忘记了家乡的一切。但每当它看到、听到或感受到这世界上一切美好的事物时，它就会不由自主地感动，它知道那些美好的东西来自它的故园，那似曾相识的纯净和美好唤醒了它的记忆”。

Human Collective Subconscious. It has been four hours since I started watching this film, but all the cells in my body are still trembling because of excitement and enjoyment...... Maybe this is the touch from the triggered collective subconscious which record the our life from generation to generation. As the director said, “The soul of human comes from a fabulous homeland where only exist pure and beauty. Then the soul steps into the world and boards in a doughnut after wandering so long, leaving everything behind. However, when the soul comes across the beauty again, it will be affected spontaneously. The familiar pure and beauty which come form its homeland bring all the good memory back.

我们不去评论这些说法的真伪对错，只是去体验这样的说法，对你产生怎样的影响：是否对死亡不再那么恐惧？是否安慰了一些天人永隔的遗憾？是否对生活多了一些安稳？是否对生命多了些许感动？是否感受到更多希望？是否对爱有了更多的勇气、理解和包容？是否开始升起好奇与慈悲的心看待自己和这个世界？是否滋养了你的生命？

We ought to think about these ideas instead of judging them. Do there have any influence on you? Still have a fear of death? Getting better about losing someone forever? Living a more peaceful life? Having more affection, hope, courage, understand and forgive? Starting to see this world with curiosity and mercy? Nourishing you life or not?

最后，电影本身并不重要，重要的是，他对你产生了哪些影响，你活过的人生也没那么重要，那只是一些经历，重要的是，如何让这些经历滋养你当下的人生！

谢谢你看到最后，再见。

In a word, the film itself is not important, only what you learned form it matters. What really important for us is to learn how to nourish our current life from the past experiences.

Thanks for your reading! Enjoy your life!

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