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好事难做
增广贤文上有这几句:“见事莫说,问事不知; 闲事莫管,无事早归”。为什么不闻不问呢?原来是好人难当、好事难做,做好事是需要大智慧的!像我这样愚蠢的人,常常好心办坏事,喜欢帮忙,结果是帮倒忙,原来是自己才智不够。古代有一大户之家女儿出嫁,出嫁前母亲告诉她:“不要做好事”。女儿一听奇怪了,不要做好事,难道专做坏事吗?要知道过去都是大家族,妯娌、姑子七八个,是非常难相处的!处不好就产生怨恨会苦,母亲告诫女儿,做好事要智慧,需要方法技巧!可见母亲明达人情事故。我一朋友昨天向我诉苦,他出于好意劝一个客户,不要瞎买东西,客户不但不听,反而不去他店了。我说很正常,人就是莫名其妙,尤其搞古玩的,大多都不走正道,只想玩心眼耍聪明捡大漏,一个人的思想是由他的阅历、经验、学识、三观等汇集的总和,没有人会随随便便把他人的话当作金科玉律,他会用自己的思维解读,必须与他的思维契合才愿意接受。牛那么老实,还要看牵它鼻子的人是谁呢,若是妇孺,它还尥蹶子的,更何况人?力微休负重,言轻莫劝人;集聚自己的力量长成一颗参天大树吧!
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