澳洲小学运动会的《家长守则》把我震到了
1. Do not force an unwilling child to participate in particular sports.
2. Remember your children are involved in organised school sports for their enjoyment and fulfilment, not yours.
3. Encourage your child always to play by the rules.
4. Teach your child that honest effort is as important as winning so that the result of each game is accepted without undue disappointment.
5. Encourage your child to work towards skill improvement and good sportsmanship. Never ridicule your child for making a mistake or losing a competition.
6. Remember that children learn best by example. Applaud good play by your team and by members of the opposing team.
7. Do not publicly question the officials' judgement and never their honesty.
8. Appreciate the contribution and commitment of teacher/coaches. They give of their time and resources to provide sporting activities for your child.
9. Have realistic expectations for your child and his/her team - do not expect more than they can give.
1. Do not force an unwilling child to participate in tutoring.
2. Remember your children are involved in academic studies for their enjoyment and fulfilment, not yours.
4. Teach your child that honest effort is as important as high marks so that the result of each test is accepted without undue disappointment.
5. Encourage your child to work towards skill improvement and good sportsmanship. Never ridicule your child for making a mistake or failing a test.
9. Have realistic expectations for your child - do not expect more than they can give.