三又木分享看过的电影与遇见的人 #EachforEqual
#EachforEqual Sanyoumu shares films and friends
#每个人的平等
#EachforEqual
三又木的等号手势
Sanyoumu's hands-out equal pose
三又木分享的故事中大部分的中英文以及配图由她本人提供，作为这项活动的发起者陶理在征得同意的基础上，做了第一段和部分英文翻译的修改，标点符号和表达方式以及部分颜色的修改，做了排版，还附上了自己的个人评论。
豆瓣上有个话题是文艺作品中打动我的女性形象。
我最先想到的是《飘》里的斯佳丽真的很有勇气，大背景之下的她从只有情爱的少女长成了顽强有担当的家庭支柱。
前几天看了《走出非洲》，新婚第二天丈夫就搬走，马上振作起来打理整个非洲的农场。
打动我的从来都是这种用力活在此刻的女性们。
但如果说到此时的时空，我想到的不是远在天边的大人物，却是生活在我身边的实实在在的优秀女性们。
Douban has a topic called female characters in literature and arts that touches me.
The first character comes to my mind is Scarlett in Gone with the Wind. She grows from a girl who only wants love into a strong and responsible person who can support the family in such a time.
A few days ago, I also watched the film Out of Africa. The female charcter's husband left the day after they got married, she quickly came back to herself and took care of the farm in Africa.
The women who move me are always those who live as hard as they can in their lives.
But if we come back to our time and space, not the big names far from my daily life, I would like to talk real excellent women around me.
相关链接 Here are the links:
Female characters:
https://www.douban.com/gallery/topic/131514/?from=discussing
Out of Africa:
https://movie.douban.com/subject/1291840/
博士学姐Miao:
我认识她可以说充满了巧合，她是我学姐的朋友（也是学姐）的学姐的学妹。
由于自己工作了几年在读书，心境和大多数直接出国读书的人不太一样，也不太玩得到一块。
认识她可以说，是我在留学期间觉得非常幸运的一件事。
她是一个怎么样的人呢？
依稀记得有个对她的评价是“阳光下煽动金色翅膀的火烈鸟”。
她看书，学术的非学术的，有几次图书馆里见到她，专注的眼神让我甚至不好意思跟她打招呼。
她看展，看展做笔记的习惯就是她教我的。
她运动，定期跑半马全马，远足，每周足球训练。
她记录，可以看到她每天的奇思妙想。
活跃的她会拉着大家一起在特殊的日子聚会聊天，六一儿童节我们探讨儿童，自己的生日带着大家一起去远足，然后一起看日落。
处处给人惊喜，得知我的生日立马做了蛋糕邀请我庆祝。
哦，她还会做甜品。
如果要我给她一个评价的话，我会用莎士比亚的名句“The world is my oyster”。
她让我看到人生和世界的可能性，尤其很丧的时候，和她聊完总会充满鸡血地立起来，然后想：
嗯，我可以。
I know Miao by chance.
She is my senior’s friend's senior’s junior (and they are all females hhh).
Before I went abroad to study, I have been working for two years, compared with most of Chinese students who went abroad directly at a young age, honestly, we don’t have much in common with them.
Knowing her can be one of the lucky things during my study abroad.
What kind of person is she?
Vaguely remembered someone gave an evaluation as "flamingos that flaps golden wings in the sun".
She reads books, academic books and non-academic books .
I have seen her in the library several times but I didn’t want to bother her as she was so concentrating on her study.
She takes notes while watching exhibitions and I learn it from her hhh.
She exercises regularly, runs half marathon and full marathon in weekends, hiking, takes part in football training. She records her interesting ideas.
She is active in throwing parties and inviting everyone to chat, enjoy food, especially on special days.
We discussed children education on Children's Day, we went hiking on her birthday, and watched the sunset together.
She brings surprise to friends, when she learned that my birthday by chance, she made a cake immediately for me.
Oh yes, she also makes desserts.
If asking me to give her a comment, I will use Shakespeare's famous phrase "The world is my oyster".
She shows me the possibility of life and the world, especially when I am upset, chatting with her give me courage to work again. She makes me think:
yes, I can do that.
博士同龄Andi：
我认识她是上面学姐介绍的，其实她俩关系贼好哈哈哈，那句火烈鸟的评价也是Andi给的Miao学姐的。
第一次见面的时候，在去牛津大学听讲座的火车上。
Andi没有看完向Miao借来的书（因为要“过期”了），疯狂地翻看。那一次的见面我们并没有深聊什么，只是发现我俩同岁，也都对大自然很感兴趣。
后来不知道怎么就熟悉起来了。
熟起来之后，我才开始真的佩服她。
同为90后，但她的生活方式非常的“老干部”，早睡早起，作息规律，饮食规律。
她很沉静，在公众号里定期更新了自己的所见所想，喧闹的时代里，好像唯独她的书桌是宁静的。
她很细腻，会在分别时，出其不意地发大段文字给你送别。
她很感性，会在公众号向全世界撒狗粮宣布自己有了男朋友，理由是“给了我最大的自由做自己”。
她着实关心着这个世界，我们一起堂食酸奶，她吃完之后把一次性勺子擦干净，她说这个勺子其实可以继续用的，另外她也想看看她一年到底会消耗多少一次性用品（这一点学姐Miao和她都是一样的）。
我总觉得她的身上拥有了无数美好的品质，羡慕得不行不行的。
Miao introduced Andi to me.
In fact, they are very close friends.
When we first met, we were on a train to Oxford University for a lecture.
Andi was reading the book borrowed from Miao, because it was closed to "expired”, so she went through it frantically.
We didn't talk too much during that short trip, but we found that the two of us were at the same age and were both interested in nature.
After I got acquainted with her, I started to really admire her. Both are post-90s, but her lifestyle is very "old cadres".
She goes to bed early and wakes up early, enjoy food and keep a healthy diet (compare with me ……)
She was very quiet (well, it’s hard to find a suitable word in English, I mean she has the patience to think by herself not just follow what others think), and regularly updated her views and thoughts in WeChat public account.
In the noisy era, it seemed that her desk was quiet. She is very delicate, and will send you large text unexpectedly when you are separated.
She is very emotional (or sensible, I can’t find a better word), and will announce to the world that she has a boyfriend on WeChat public account, and presented the reason why they came to together “because he gives me the greatest freedom to be myself".
She really cares about the world. When we eat yoghurt together in Pret. After eating, she wiped the spoon and said that the spoon can actually be used again in her house (it’s same as Miao).
She said she also wanted to know how many disposable items she consumed in a year.
I always feel that she has countless beautiful qualities which I truly admire.
她们两个在很大程度上影响了我，我说不出来具体是什么，只是觉得她们认真地看待自己，真实地活着。
怎样的女性是打动人心的，这是一个“一千个哈姆雷特”式的问题，但我猜想那些打动别人的女性也许从来没想打动别人，只是按着自己想要的方式，努力地活着。
They both have an influence on me, I cannot tell exactly what is, but I just feel it is so nice to know that they treat themselves seriously and live as they want to.
What kind of women touches you most, everyone has own answer, but I guess those women who move others may never want to move others, but just live as hard as they would like to.
陶理看完这段的感受：
Hermione's feelings:
我都不敢相信我竟然认识这里面提到的人诶，真巧！
I cannot believe I know the people mentioned by her, what a coincidence!
严肃一点，我其实觉得有点内疚因为我知道三又木面对镜头有点害羞，而且最近非常忙碌。但我还是逼迫她写点什么，因为我一直都欣赏她看待世界和身边可爱的人的角度。我知道她能毫不费力地写出一些打动人心的文字，果然如此。
Seriously, I feel a little guilty as I know Sanyoumu is a bit shy when taking photos and quite busy recently. I still pushed her to write something as I always appreciate her ways to see the world and the lovely people in her life. I know she can effortlessly write words can touch people's hearts, and I am right.
我还记得和她第一次见面是去周一中午去附近的一个叫做49的咖啡馆吃午餐，我们买完后（没有塑料包装）坐在小花园里一起吃饭。我们聊了自己的求学经历与研究兴趣，至少我当时就有一见如故的感觉。之后我们一起去樱草花山看日落，正好是她的生日于是我就做了一点黑暗料理给她吃，我记得有草莓馅的波兰饺子。每次和她见面，我都能感受到她的活力与细腻，总能注意到别人会忽视的小细节。我觉得自己已经认识她很久很久了，或者应该说我希望我更早认识她。
I still remember that we first met at the 49 Cafe some Monday afternoon for lunch. We bought take-away (without plastic package) and sat at a small garden to eat together. We shared with each other about our studies and research interests, at least I feel like I know her for long even we just met. A few weeks after, we went to see the sunset at Primrose Hill. And it was her birthday so I made her some dark-magic food, one of them were the Polish dumplings with strawberry stuffing. Everytime we meet, I can feel that she is energetic and sensitive to something others might ignore. I think I have know her for long, or I should say that I hope I had known her earlier.
我也希望看到这里的你也有可以彼此看到对方闪光点的朋友。
I also hope that the reader who is reading this line can have friends that you both see the shining points when you look at each other.
最后，我也想分享三又木在她的公众号写过的三篇文章：
Last but not least, I want to share three articles written and posetd by Sanyoumu at her wechat public account: