Daily Inspiration④①①
你已经是个大人了，你不能再肆无忌惮的闹脾气，不能再把心里的情绪都摆在脸上，不能再蹉跎你的岁月，你得靠自己多赚一些钱，你得知道熬夜对身体不好，你得学会看场合说话，哭完了还要学会处理那些烦心事。你得承担起一个成年人应有的责任了。
You're an adult. You can't be reckless, you can't put your emotions on your face, you can't waste your time, you have to earn more money by yourself, you have to know that staying up late is bad for your health, you have to learn to talk on the occasion, you have to learn to deal with those worries after crying. You have to shoulder the responsibilities of an adult.
与其指望遇到一个谁，不如指望自己能吸引那样的人；与其指望失落的时候会有阳光的人出现温暖你，不如指望自己变成一个阳光的人。
It's better to expect yourself to attract people like that than to meet someone. It's better to expect yourself to become a sunshine person than to expect the sunshine person to warm you up when you are lost.
你若有意，我将深爱不逾；你若无意，我也绝不牵挂。读懂别人是一种欣喜，被人读懂是一种幸福，怀助人的心，做舒心的事，做单纯的人，走幸福的路，每天给自己一个微笑，种上一天的阳光。
If you intend, I will love you deeply; if you do not intend, I will never care. Reading others is a kind of joy, being understood is a kind of happiness, helping people, doing comfortable things, doing simple people, walking the happy road, giving yourself a smile every day, planting the sunshine of the day.
其实，在我们的生活里，会遇到很多的挫折和困难，有人能克服它，有人却一蹶不振，这是什么原因，就是人的心态问题。如果你连克服困难的勇气都没有，怎能向前。
In fact, in our life, we will encounter a lot of setbacks and difficulties. Some people can overcome them, while others are stagnant. What is the reason for this is the problem of people's mentality. If you don't have the courage to overcome difficulties, how can you move forward?
你生活在别人的眼神里，就迷失在自己的心路上。坚持做你自己，而不是被别人修改的面目全非。透支了眼泪，我们便会没心没肺的笑。如果有人可以依靠，谁会愿意独立。
If you live in the eyes of others, you will be lost in your own heart. Stick to being yourself instead of being modified by others. If we overdraw our tears, we will laugh heartlessly. If someone can depend on it, who will be willing to be independent?
别难过，世间都是这样的，不管走到哪里，总有令人失望的事情，一旦碰到，我们就很容易过度悲观，把事情看得太严重。放心，闭上眼，睡一觉，说不定明天就会有新鲜的事儿发生。
Don't be sad, the world is like this. No matter where we go, there are always disappointing things. Once we meet them, we can easily be overly pessimistic and take things too seriously. Rest assured, close your eyes, sleep, maybe something new will happen tomorrow.
活得糊涂的，容易幸福；活得清醒的，容易烦恼。这是因为，清醒的人看得太真切，一较真，生活中便烦恼遍地；而糊涂的人，计较得少，虽然活得简单粗糙，却因此觅得了人生的大滋味。
Live confused, easy to be happy; Live sober, easy to worry. This is because sober people look too real, a more real, life will be troubled everywhere; while confused people, care less, although living a simple rough, but therefore find a great taste of life.
其实外面的世界真的很美，会有像初恋一样甜蜜的爱情，会有比前任更爱你的人。原谅，不过是将遗憾悄悄掩埋；忘记，才是最深刻彻底的宽容。
In fact, the outside world is really beautiful, there will be as sweet love as first love, there will be people who love you more than their predecessors. Forgiveness is just burying regrets quietly; forgetting is the deepest and thorough tolerance.
我想我开始懂得，让现实的回归现实，故事的回归故事。一些人的遗憾，应该演变成另一些人的幸福。你年纪轻轻，心地善良，怕什么没人爱。别担心，你终会遇见这样的一个人，好的总是压箱底，所有的不期而遇，只为遇见你。
I think I'm beginning to understand, let the reality return to reality, the story return to the story. Some people's regrets should evolve into the happiness of others. You are young, kind-hearted, afraid that no one loves you. Don't worry, you will eventually meet such a person, good always press the bottom of the box, all unexpected encounters, just to meet you.
爱一个人不要爱十分，八分已足够，剩下的两分爱自己。太爱一个人，你会太在乎他跟谁一起，心里是否有你；太爱一个人，会被他牵着鼻子走，完全不能自己。
Love a person not very much, eight points is enough, the remaining two love themselves. If you love a person too much, you will care too much about who he is with and whether you are in your heart; if you love a person too much, you will be led by his nose and totally unable to be yourself.
当我情绪处于低谷的时候，你也总能想尽办法让我高兴起来，逗我开心逗我笑。我看你的眼神总是充满了崇拜，你是我心目中无所不能的英雄。
When I'm in a low mood, you can always do everything you can to make me happy, make me happy and make me laugh. I see that your eyes are always full of worship, you are the omnipotent hero in my mind.
为一个人动了心，却不能随他去海角天涯，一梦醒来，世事成蹉跎。总是在凌晨两点，想念着曾失去的他，如果当初我们都不那么倔强，会不会有另一个结局？有一个人一直刻在心上，不管时间如何流逝，依旧无法抹去他的印记。
Moved by a person, but could not follow him to the ends of the sea, wake up from a dream, things go wrong. Always at 2:00 in the morning, missing the lost him, if we were not so stubborn at the beginning, will there be another outcome? There is a person who has been engraved in his heart, no matter how time passes, still can not erase his mark.