Daily Inspiration④0⑨
我总是没有多少时间去哀愁，因为路过的地方总会和我暗暗说笑。在路过之后，我才发现我也只是过客。“这世上，不是每一个人都懂得知恩图报，所以别做一个，总是委屈自己成全别人的老好人”
I don't always have much time to grieve, because I always laugh with myself in the places I pass by. After passing by, I found that I was just a passer-by. "In this world, not everyone knows how to reciprocate gratitude, so don't be an old good man who always wrongs himself to make others perfect."
生活如舟，摇摆不定；生活如水，平淡最美；生活如麻，千丝万缕；生活如料，酸甜苦辣；生活如酒，纯而不腻；生活如竹，步步高升生活是，生下来，活下去。遭受挫折不但可以使人生积累经验，而且挫折可使人生得到不断的升华。所以我们更应该正视挫折珍爱生命。
Life is like a boat, wavering; Life is like water, plain and most beautiful; Life is like hemp, thousands of strands; Life is as expected, sweet, bitter and spicy; Life is like wine, pure and not greasy; Life is like bamboo, rising step by step, life is born, live. Suffering setbacks can not only make life accumulate experience, but also make life continuously sublimate. Therefore, we should face setbacks and cherish life.
要追求幸福，就不能按别人的曲子跳舞，要仔细倾听自己内心深处发出的声音，把自己的主客观条件像接受阳光和空气一样接受下来，坚信人不能拔着自己的头发离开地球，绝大多数人都注定要在平凡中度过自己的一生。
To pursue happiness, we should not dance to other people's tunes. We should listen carefully to the voices of our hearts, accept our subjective and objective conditions as we accept sunshine and air. We firmly believe that people can't leave the earth with their hair pulled out. Most people are destined to spend their lives in the ordinary world.
财富是一种寄存，你不能将其带走；荣誉是一道亮光，你无法将其留住；成功是一颗硕果，你无法四季品尝；生命是一种过程，你不能让其停步。事物是辩证的，当你得到一些东西时，同时也会让你失去另一些东西；当你失去一些东西时，同时也会让你得到一些东西。
Wealth is a kind of deposit, you can't take it away; honor is a light, you can't keep it; success is a fruit, you can't taste it all the year round; life is a process, you can't let it stop. Things are dialectical. When you get something, you lose something else. When you lose something, you also get something.
无论走到生命的哪一个阶段，都该喜欢那一段的时光，完成那一阶段该完成的职责，顺生而行，不沉迷过去，不狂热地期待着未来，这样就好。有些事，现在看来不过如此，但在当时，真的就是一个人一秒一秒熬过来的。
No matter which stage of life you go to, you should like that period of time, fulfill the responsibilities that should be accomplished at that stage, go along with your life, not indulge in the past, and not look forward to the future enthusiastically. That's all right. Some things, it seems that this is not the case now, but at that time, it was really a person who survived one second at a time.
自从我遇见你那天开始，我的心，就像跌入了深深的湖水，推不开，躲不掉，心一直想往你身上靠，曾经有人告诉过我，感情是不能勉强的，而且也不能靠近，可我一见到你，我就变得不像我自己。
Since the day I met you, my heart, like falling into a deep lake, can not push, can not hide, my heart has always wanted to lean on you, someone once told me, feelings can not be reluctant, and can not be near, but when I saw you, I became unlike myself.
你离开以后我偷偷的爱你了好久，直到你说放手吧，我们已经回不去了，我才明白其实不是回不去只是不爱了。从认识你，到和你性命相连，我从未后悔过。
After you left, I secretly loved you for a long time, until you said let go, we can't go back, I understand that it's not going back, it's just not love. From knowing you to connecting with your life, I never regret it.
真正的爱情如同是炫丽的烟火，在寂寥的黑夜中，绽放着震撼人心的光华。每一分每一秒都很亮眼，也都很珍贵。两个人真心相爱，应该把每一天都过成双方渴望的模样。如是，这一辈子，才会幸福无比。
True love is like a dazzling fireworks, in the lonely night, blooming a shocking light. Every minute, every second is bright and precious. When two people really love each other, they should live each day as they both desire. If so, this life, will be extremely happy.
如果总是认为自己还年轻，还可以蹉跎岁月的话，那终将一事无成，老来叹息。——年轻是资本，但很短暂。我想做一个很有钱的孤独患者，走我乐意的路，做我乐意的事，说我乐意的话，孤我乐意的独，做一个真正随性的人。
If you always think you're young and can waste time, you'll never get anywhere. Always sigh. —— Youth is capital, but short. I want to be a very wealthy lonely patient, take the way I like, do what I like, say what I like, be a real casual person.
那些消失了的岁月，仿佛隔着一块积着灰尘的玻璃，看得到，抓不着。他一直在怀念着过去的一切。如果他能冲破那块积着灰尘的玻璃， 他会走回早已消失的岁月。
Those disappeared years, as if separated by a piece of dusty glass, can be seen, can not grasp. He has been thinking of the past. If he could break through the dusty glass, he would go back to the years that had already disappeared.
所谓成熟，就是：你要习惯，任何人的忽冷忽热；也要看淡，任何人的渐行渐远。不乱于心，不困于情。不畏将来，不念过去。淡然地过着自己的生活，不要轰轰烈烈，只求安安心心。如此，安好。
The so-called maturity is: you have to get used to, anybody's cold and hot; you also have to look down on, anybody's gradual drift away. Not confused in the heart, not trapped in the feelings. Don't fear the future, don't think about the past. Live your life indifferently. Don't be vigorous, just be at ease. So, good.
人活着就是一种心态，当你自己心若旁鹜，淡看人生苦痛，淡薄名利，心态积极而平衡，有所求而有所不求，有所为而有所不为，不用刻意掩饰自己，不用势利逢迎他人，只是做一个简单真实的自己。如此这般，即使失意，也会无所谓得与失，坦坦荡荡，真真切切，平平静静，快快乐乐。
People live is a kind of mentality, when you are indifferent to the pain of life, indifferent to fame and fortune, positive and balanced mentality, asking for something but not asking for something, doing something but not doing something, do not deliberately conceal themselves, do not meet others snobberately, just be a simple and true self. In this way, even if we are disappointed, we will have no matter what we gain or lose. We will be frank, honest, calm and happy.